Keep blogging: use 'comments' properly

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Whilst the number of bloggers is continuing to increase, many bloogers are missing out on the true nature of ‘blogging’ … comments.

One thing that has really put me off adding my thoughts and comments to some blogs is that I have to be registered to do so. I don’t mind my comment being moderated (I do it here) but:

  • I have enough logins to contend with, I don’t need any more,
  • I might not come back again for a very long time, and I can guarantee my PC won’t have remembered the login for your blog,
  • It takes too long to sign up for another website.
  • I believe in openess, I will and have published comments that don’t match my own viewpoint. I moderate to cut the spam that some silly sod keeps trying to post (online meds, no thanks!).

This is why I found Vicki Davis’ blog entry on “How to comment like a king (or queen!)” are real breath of fresh air.

How and why should we comment on someone else’s blog? While I am as guilt as so many others for wanting to keep my knowledge on my blog, I have also realised what Vicki points out: “the true conversation participants are those who contribute to the discussion wherever the blog posting is.”

  • Make the comment count – dont’ just write “yes” or “I agree”, but quantify why you agree, make it personal and reinforce your experience.
  • Respect the author/owner of the blog – by all means link back to your own blog/website (most blog software will do this when you enter your name and website URL into the comment field), but if you’re rude or abusive in your comment you can expect for it to be removed. If you disagree with the post then by all means continue to disagree, but follow point above … “make it count”.
  • Comments breed more comments – More and more people also read comments on blog posts, and also follow links to a good comment (see above). This helps to give credence to your content and your content (depending on whether you are the commenter or blogger).
  • Make the link – If you found a blog from somewhere else, give that website credit, somehow, in your comment.
  • Say ‘thanks’  – Email someone who commented on your blog and say thanks. Make it personal, make them feel valued; they’re more likely to come back again, and also more likely to use one of your posts as background to their own (like I’m doing here!).
  • Be brave – for those who are not natural or particularly comfortable online, be brave. Start small and get a feel for who you are online. It’s how I started.
  • Be concise – Don’t write a book.

“Commenting is part of this global conversation. People who make meaningful comments understand that this new Internet is about discussing our common concerns and coming up with solutions in a more expeditious and helpful manner that does not exclude anyone.”